of lysosomes and cleaning

do you know why sometimes after crying your views will change?

this is because tears function to clean your sight and the lysosomes that are contained in the tears will hydrolyse the fog and lies colouring your vision.

 

there are many reasons why we cry.

we cry because we feel sad for someone. we cry because we feel hurt because of someone..we cry because we feel sorry for ourselves.

oh, or maybe because our tear glands are too active and therefore you just cry.. [possible, right???]

only we will know the real reason why WE cry. the same holds true, only WE ourselves know how much [or how little] we love a person. this human heart is very supple, resilient, and is subject to many changes. i guess that’s just another way to politely say that we can be fickle creatures and saying “i’ll love your forever” is probably just some kind of empty promise.

back to the subject, maybe its time to ask yourself, why did you cry? after crying, did you learn something new? if it doesn’t change anything, then you’re better off keeping the moisture in your body. when you were a kid, mommy and daddy was there. and now?

here’s a promise that is a challenge to keep: “i won’t make you cry”.

the only way you can NOT make someone cry is to NOT have anything to do with them, and even so, it still just might make them cry. *swt*

a relationship consists of two people. just like how you will require BOTH hands to produce the sound of applause, a relationship is only formed when there are two people investing their time, emotions and hearts to the other. [no, the ones with your soft toys do not count XD]

and just like all investments, there is always a risk and no guarantees that your investment will be returned. some people might just get lucky and received dividends beyond their expectations.. [how best to be surprised: always have a very low expectation. plus, you minimise the chances of disappointment] sometimes, you might not. therefore, it makes sense to always have an idea of what to expect. if you expect too much, you might just be disappointed.

it helps if you’ve done your research, for example: you don’t just buy shares from any tom, dick or harry company on a whim do you? the same reasoning goes: you do not just invest your heart and time on any joe, jack or adam on the street.

on the other hand, the heart is a rebellious child, unwilling to obey the rules of logic. in that case, the best thing to do would be to prepare yourself for the jump.

after all, no one ever got anywhere without making some kind of risk. “faint heart never won fair lady” [and no, guys are not dumb, or noobs. if they do not make a move to work towards a relationship, it just means that they are not interested in one.. they’re guys. they don’t do subtle hints. or any type of hint for the matter]

the most awesome part is, “even if i fall, at least i get to fly for a moment”

because the future will take care of itself.

it is going to be near impossible to find someone who you care for that won’t make you cry. it is however possible to find someone who is worth every single drop of your tears. sometimes, there are people who will not seem worthy in everyone’s opinion. but that is hardly the main point because “everyone” is not going to live with the decision that you make and neither would they be as affected as you might be. YOUR view will be the most important because some people may not be the best decision but they are irreplaceable.

p.s this is highly contemplative and now i sound so old =(((

i guess i was talking to a friend some time ago, and it brought be down the memory lane. i have been taught much by my friends and learnt enough that things are always never the way it seems. it is not in human nature to be unbiased and always forgiving. i am content to leave such things to whomever’s up there. i might not know enough, i definitely do not know the whole story and because this is entirely between two people, i can only do my best in working hard on the relationship between you and me. it hurts that i cannot be any more of a help, it is does not rest well on my conscience that i am unable to stem your tears. but i will do all that’s within my abilities to catch every single drop for the person who did not.